Welcome! I am Angie B. Prince, child of God, wife of Tommy, mother of 3, Grief and Trauma Life Coach, Psychotherapist, and Mother Grieving. On 8/2/2006, our precious 19-yr-old daughter Merry Katherine was killed along w/ 2 other teens via vehicular manslaughter. Here I share as we agonizingly process our grief and trauma. Email: MotherGrieving(at)gmail(dot)com. Coaching (Tommy or Angie): Call 865-548-4four3four / Counseling (Angie in TN) 865-604-9nine9two. I pray God will minister to you here.
Welcome! I am Angie B. Prince, child of God, wife of Tommy, mother of 3, psychotherapist and Mother Grieving.
Tommy and I met in graduate school in Atlanta, then married in 1979 and started a Christian Counseling/Coaching practice in Knoxville, TN where we still live. We have 1 daughter Merry Katherine, forever-19 in Heaven, 2 sons, Nathan (age 34) (wife Ashley), and Rollin (age 37) (wife Stephanie), and two granddaughters, Ellie and Penny.
In this blog, we process our grief over our Merry Katherine who was killed along with two other teens in a brutal car crash while on the way to the beach on 8/2/2006 (two teens survived). Having lost our daughter suddenly and violently on the cusp of launching her into adulthood, we were thrown into Complicated and Traumatic Grief. We share here our agonizing process of wading through the multiple twists and turns of shattered assumptions, challenged faith, traumatized body-soul-and-spirts, and devastated hearts. May our grief touch some of your own pain as we walk through this difficult but sacred ground together.
"Blessed are those who mourn, for they will be comforted" Scientifically Documented!
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___________________"Addicted To Grief? Chronic Grief Activates Pleasure Areas Of The Brain"
OR "Blessed are those who mourn, for they will be comforted" Has Now Been Scientifically Documented!
. . . . . We now have physiological evidence via Magnetic Resonance Imaging (MRI) that such "comfort" is indeed, a fact! In debilitating, complicated grief after the sudden death of a loved one, "comfort" was shown by significant nucleus accumbens activation in the brain's reward network!
If God Chose the Broken... (Letter to My Friends, Family, Church, and Community)
If people do not begrudge a sweet little old lady for knitting everyday as she works her craft for her loved ones with her yarn, so too I ask myself,
Why do people begrudge child-loss grievers for daily re-knitting their damaged hearts, souls, and spirits back together after they had been unraveled beyond recognition from the first day their child was ripped from their sides?
Child-Loss Grief and Trauma
is a Daily Process,
expected to last a Life-time,
until that beautiful Day when we are
rejoined with our little ones.
Please treat us with kindness,
and
at the very least,
Learn to respect
what you have No Way Of Knowing:
how Unbearable
the Child-Loss Grief and Trauma process is
upon our severely traumatized lives
every
day.
Every.
Day.
I repeat,
You would have No. Way. Of. Knowing.
or
even
Beginning. To. Know.
what we deal with,
unless you yourself also
Lost Your Child,
and
We would Never,
Ever,
wish
that
upon
You
or
Anyone.
So please,
Just respect our process,
And know,
Always keep in mind,
There is a lot about our Child-Loss Grief and Trauma
you.will. never.know.
Be thankful for that,
And,
please
Please,
Love us
Where. We. Are.
Not
Where. You. Want. Us. To. Be.
God doesn't blame the broken
for their brokenness;
God loves the broken...
Can you?
~Angie Prince, Mother Grieving Loss of Child,
Psychotherapist, and Grief, Loss, & Trauma Coach
~~~
Please remember what God's Word says,
1 Corinthians 1:27
New International Version (NIV)
"But God chose the foolish things of the world to shame the wise;
God chose the weak things of the world to shame the strong."