Showing posts with label God Understands Our Tears. Show all posts
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Saturday, June 29, 2013

Friday's Faith - Our Sufferings… His Love...






Hebrews 4:16
~Hers To Treasure 


So let us come boldly to the throne of our gracious God. There we will receive his mercy, and we will find grace to help us when we need it most.



Friday's Faith

Our Sufferings… His Love...








Faith in Christ makes short work of all our sins. Then the devil has launched forth another host of serpents in the form of worldly trials, temptations, unbelief; but faith in Jesus is more than a match for them, and overcomes them all. The same absorbing principle shines in the faithful service of God!  

With an enthusiastic love for Jesus difficulties are surmounted, sacrifices become pleasures, sufferings are honours. 

~Charles Spurgeon in his June 28 evening devotional...



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2 Corinthians 4:4-18 (NIV):
4The god of this age has blinded the minds of unbelievers, so that they cannot see the light of the gospel that displays the glory of Christ, who is the image of God. 5For what we preach is not ourselves, but Jesus Christ as Lord, and ourselves as your servants for Jesus’ sake.
6For God, who said, “Let light shine out of darkness,” made his light shine in our hearts to give us the light of the knowledge of God’s glory displayed in the face of Christ.
7But we have this treasure in jars of clay to show that this all-surpassing power is from God and not from us. 8We are hard pressed on every side, but not crushed; perplexed, but not in despair; 9persecuted, but not abandoned; struck down, but not destroyed. 10We always carry around in our body the death of Jesus, so that the life of Jesus may also be revealed in our body. 11For we who are alive are always being given over to death for Jesus’ sake, so that his life may also be revealed in our mortal body. 12So then, death is at work in us, but life is at work in you.
13It is written: “I believed; therefore I have spoken.” Since we have that same spirit of faith, we also believe and therefore speak, 14because we know that the one who raised the Lord Jesus from the dead will also raise us with Jesus and present us with you to himself. 15All this is for your benefit, so that the grace that is reaching more and more people may cause thanksgiving to overflow to the glory of God.
16Therefore we do not lose heart. Though outwardly we are wasting away, yet inwardly we are being renewed day by day. 17For our light and momentary troubles are achieving for us an eternal glory that far outweighs them all. 18So we fix our eyes not on what is seen, but on what is unseen, since what is seen is temporary, but what is unseen is eternal.

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2 Corinthians 4:8




2 Corinthians 4:8 (Good News Translation)


We are afflicted in every way, but not crushed; perplexed, but not driven to despair;


These past few weeks have been terribly hard for me. The above Scripture says, "We are often troubled, but not crushed." Actually, I felt very close to the breaking point, that point of being crushed. It was a daily turmoil, a daily struggle, and I knew not its origin, I knew not its cause. There was no single problem that made such a struggle obvious. I was simply bottomed out, with no reserve left...

As I bottomed out, I pretty much felt the opposite of this verse. Not only was I afflicted in every way, but I felt crushed. Not only was I terribly perplexed but I felt a great deal of despair. It was again a seeming perfect storm as my weakness and my being worn down crashed into my vulnerabilities, which revealed all my worst fears which felt like they actively, here-and-now, were coming to pass… 
Post-Traumatic Stress was loudly barking out its destructive message of "Terror, Loss, Hurt, Pain, Betrayal, Fear, Weakness, Impotence, Helplessness ARE ALL HERE, NOW, and you have NOWHERE to run!" 

But, after talking some of this out with Tommy, and crying out many times to my Lord, I was not left holding only this crushing despair, as I did feel the amazing  supernatural peace of my Lord come over me as He comforted my heart and brought light into my soul. Only my Lord could overcome such darkness… 

I literally felt the following verse play out in my life at that point:

16Therefore we do not lose heart. Though outwardly we are wasting away, yet inwardly we are being renewed day by day. 


2 Corinthians 4:16-17




~Sweet to the Soul

Thankfully, the Scripture goes on to say:

For our light and momentary troubles are achieving for us an eternal glory that far outweighs them all.

~2 Corinthians 4:17



God does not deny the severity of our situation; His Word confirms that pain, but He also provides His prescription to soothe and overcome our bouts of that pain, even while assuring us that our labors and sufferings here are not in vain; He sees them and uses them for an eternal glory that far outweighs our temporal, here-and-now distress. And then He reminds us we cannot allow ourselves to get stuck in all the darkness of our fears, but must turn our hearts to Him, allowing Him to penetrate the force-field of our despair, allowing Him to engulf us in His arms, hold us in His abiding love, and supersede our fears with reminders of His constant care, which then enables us to begin to entrust ourselves to Him again… 

Our suffering is duly noted by Him, and comforted. Our sufferings are held up in the light of His higher viewpoint which gives us Hope, and then our eyes are drawn to Himself who is, by His Own words, characterized as "Love," for Him to nurture our wounds, hold us in His comfort as a mother soothes her wounded child, and give us the Hope from His eternal perspective, so that we may rest, and find sustenance for another day…

May God bless all of us grieving mothers and daddies who find ourselves oft overwhelmed in the darkness of this grief and the life-altering desolations that so often come after the death of our precious child…






~Hers To Treasure 

So let us come boldly to the throne of our gracious God. There we will receive His mercy, and we will find grace to help us when we need it. 
~Hebrews 4:16 NLT



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~Hers To Treasure 


But He said to me, “My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness.” Therefore I will boast all the more gladly about my weaknesses, so that Christ’s power may rest on me. That is why, for Christ’s sake, I delight in weaknesses, in insults, in hardships, in persecutions, in difficulties. For when I am weak, then I am strong.

~2 Corinthians 12:9-10 (New International Version)


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2 Corinthians 5:7

I will walk by Faith even when I cannot see.



~Daily Scripture Promises 




For we live by faith, not by sight.





For we live by believing and not by seeing.


~2 Corinthians 5:7





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Psalm 31:7



~Hers To Treasure 


New International Version (©2011)

I will be glad and rejoice in your love, for you saw my affliction and knew the anguish of my soul.



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Psalm 34:18


The LORD is near to the brokenhearted and saves the crushed in spirit.















Friday, June 1, 2012

Friday's Faith - God Understands Our Tears






Friday's Faith
God Understands Our Tears





God understands our tears for He lost His own Son;
He weeps along with us until the Final Battle is won;
He carries us in our pain until our journey here is done.

Though our love for our child suffers through tears
Doing battle with Evil the rest of our years,
Facing daily the Evil that wrought our child's loss,
In love, we carry on, lifting our cross,
Bearing the love that has borne the worst cost...

Until that Day… our Lord resurrects life,
Winning the Battle forever that conquers Death's strife,
When our long-suffered pain becomes ultimate joy
As we're rejoined forever with our precious girl or boy.

Then our God in Heaven tells us "the rest of the Story…"
While we rest upon His breast, basking in His grace,
As both we and our child gaze upon His face,
Resting from all pain, surrounded by His Glory.
















Pictures, thanks to Grieving Mother, Jill C.
Poem - God Understands Our Tears - Angie Bennett Prince - 5/28/2012

Thursday, December 22, 2011

Friday's Faith - Refined By Fire - Really???!





Friday's Faith


Refined By Fire - Really???!




My brother (handicapped since birth, and the sibling closest to me in my family), sent me a precious Christmas present this week, a new book by Randy Alcorn,


90 Days of God's Goodness: Daily Devotions that Shine Light on Personal Darkness.


The quotes (other than mine) in today's post are from this wonderful little book. Thank you Rick!!!




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I pray every day, first thing in the morning, and many times throughout the day,


"Lord... I can't make it through this day... without You."


~me




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"The Master Artist chose us, the flawed and unusable, to be crafted into the image of Christ to fulfill our destiny in displaying Jesus to the watching universe."


~Randy Alcorn



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This morning as I woke up, I looked around my bedroom in my sleepy stupor and saw the abject messiness everywhere, and I said to my God,


"Lord, I just don't 'fit' into this world."


And all of a sudden a peace came over me, along with goose bumps pervading my system,


"I'm not supposed to feel that I belong in this world as I am to long for Heaven, my true Home!!!"
~me

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Jesus knew, from a tender young age, the angst of living in this world, with its animosities directed right at Him, even as a helpless newborn baby in a manger. No wonder His heart goes out to all of us who are down-and-out, feeling like misfits in this upwardly-mobile and often hostile world. He has been there, many times over Himself. (Read Matthew 2 below where King Herod was trying to find the Babe who was prophesied to be the newborn King so that he could... kill Him... As a newborn baby, Jesus had to flee along with His parents to another country, into Egypt out of Israel, to wait out King Herod, until Herod died, before they could return to safety!)




At a time when I am suffering the worst loss ever, the loss of my 19-year-old baby girl, God takes me even deeper into the angst of the world, into the lives of innocents molested at tiny ages by the villainous of the world. You would think a human's heart could only go so deep into the despair and agony of this world's pain, but with God, it seems the deeper He takes us, the deeper we can go... when He leads the way.


So many therapists have turned these blessed ones away, these blessed among men, women, and children for they have the attention of their Savior's presence, the ear of their Savior's attentive love and compassion, and the tears of their Savior's breaking heart. He invites me to join into His pain, into His heart breaking over the devastations wreaked by the hands of the heartless, merciless Enemy. He invites me to cry with Him, to love with Him, to reach out and be present to His hurting children along with Him. What a blessing. What a sacred trust. What a sweet use of a mother's broken heart...



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C. S. Lewis said,


"God whispers to us in our pleasures,

speaks in our conscience,

but shouts in our pain;

it is His megaphone to rouse a deaf world."



*****



David Livingstone, Protestant missionary to Africa who died a martyr, once declared,


"Without Christ not one step, with Him anywhere.


"Suffering can help us know God and prepare us to trade a shallow life not worth keeping for a deeper life we'll never lose."




A father who lost his three little girls in an airplane accident uttered,


"After suffering this loss, we know that the only important things now are the ones that will last for eternity."



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Matthew 2

Today's New International Version (TNIV)


The Magi Visit the Messiah

1 After Jesus was born in Bethlehem in Judea, during the time of King Herod, Magi from the east came to Jerusalem 2 and asked, “Where is the one who has been born king of the Jews? We saw his star when it rose and have come to worship him.”

3 When King Herod heard this he was disturbed, and all Jerusalem with him. 4 When he had called together all the people’s chief priests and teachers of the law, he asked them where the Messiah was to be born. 5 “In Bethlehem in Judea,” they replied, “for this is what the prophet has written:

6 “‘But you, Bethlehem, in the land of Judah,
are by no means least among the rulers of Judah;
for out of you will come a ruler
who will shepherd my people Israel.’”

7 Then Herod called the Magi secretly and found out from them the exact time the star had appeared. 8 He sent them to Bethlehem and said, “Go and make a careful search for the child. As soon as you find him, report to me, so that I too may go and worship him.”

9 After they had heard the king, they went on their way, and the star they had seen when it rose went ahead of them until it stopped over the place where the child was. 10 When they saw the star, they were overjoyed. 11 On coming to the house, they saw the child with his mother Mary, and they bowed down and worshiped him. Then they opened their treasures and presented him with gifts of gold, frankincense and myrrh. 12 And having been warned in a dream not to go back to Herod, they returned to their country by another route.




The Escape to Egypt

13 When they had gone, an angel of the Lord appeared to Joseph in a dream. “Get up,” he said, “take the child and his mother and escape to Egypt. Stay there until I tell you, for Herod is going to search for the child to kill him.”

14 So he got up, took the child and his mother during the night and left for Egypt, 15 where he stayed until the death of Herod. And so was fulfilled what the Lord had said through the prophet: “Out of Egypt I called my son.”

16 When Herod realized that he had been outwitted by the Magi, he was furious, and he gave orders to kill all the boys in Bethlehem and its vicinity who were two years old and under, in accordance with the time he had learned from the Magi. 17 Then what was said through the prophet Jeremiah was fulfilled:


18 “A voice is heard in Ramah,
weeping and great mourning,
Rachel weeping for her children
and refusing to be comforted,
because they are no more.”




The Return to Nazareth

19 After Herod died, an angel of the Lord appeared in a dream to Joseph in Egypt 20 and said, “Get up, take the child and his mother and go to the land of Israel, for those who were trying to take the child’s life are dead.”

21 So he got up, took the child and his mother and went to the land of Israel. 22 But when he heard that Archelaus was reigning in Judea in place of his father Herod, he was afraid to go there. Having been warned in a dream, he withdrew to the district of Galilee, 23 and he went and lived in a town called Nazareth. So was fulfilled what was said through the prophets: “He will be called a Nazarene.”











Photo of blacksmith at work in the refining fire, thanks to FotoSearch

Scripture from the TNIV, Today's New International Version of The Holy Bible