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Saturday, September 22, 2012

Friday's Faith - The Humiliation of God








Friday's Faith

The Humiliation of God






For the word of the cross is folly to those who are perishing, but to us who are being saved it is the power of God. For it is written [the reference is to Isaiah 29], "I will destroy the wisdom of the wise and the cleverness of the clever I will thwart." 
Where is the wise man? Where is the scribe? Where is the debater of this age? Has not God made foolish the wisdom of the world? For since, in the wisdom of God, the world did not know God through wisdom, it pleased God through the folly of what we preach to save those who believe. 
For Jews demand signs and Greeks seek wisdom, but we preach Christ crucified, a stumbling-block to Jews and folly to Gentiles, but to those who are called, both Jews and Greeks, Christ is the power of God and the wisdom of God. FOR THE FOOLISHNESS OF GOD IS WISER THAN MEN, AND THE WEAKNESS OF GOD IS STRONGER THAN MEN.

~From 1 Corinthians 1




…Paul's "word of the cross," of course, is the core of the gospel: That God came into the world in the improbable figure of a small-town carpenter turned itinerant preacher, who was executed as a criminal, despised and abandoned, dead and buried---and who then, in a moment that transformed the whole structure of reality, rose from the dead to become the mightiest power in the universe and the lord of all human destinies. 

People, then as now, are relatively prepared to accept savior figures promising redemption from the ills of human existence. It is the "cross" part of the message that constitutes the "stumbling block," the "folly." It is that crucial motif in Christianity that theologians have called kenosis, the humiliation of God: 

The same God who has all power, who created this world and all possible worlds, has taken upon Himself the form and the fate of an ordinary man, and indeed a man who suffered the most agonizing afflictions of betrayal, torture, despair, and death. 

No one, Jew or Gentile, would have been taken aback at the statement that the power of God is greater than that of men; 

Paul's scandalous proposition is that the weakness of God reveals His true power, including the power to triumph over sin and death. 

…Protestant theologians have described God's work of salvation as an opus alienum, an "alien work." By this term they meant to emphasize that our salvation is not in our own hands, that it is altogether God's doing. This stress, of course, was at the core of the Protestant Reformation, in its emphasis on the primacy of grace and its rejection of "salvation by works." This aspect of Christian faith does not concern me at the moment. 

Rather, I want to emphasize the alienness of the Christian message as a whole: this savior proclaimed in the Gospel is one who breaks into human reality like an intruder---unexpected, unrecognized, indeed unappealing. In this, the savior actually authenticates his divine provenance: The divine always manifests itself as that which is alien, not human, not part of ordinary reality. 

Rudolf Otto, the great historian of religion, spoke of the "totally other," which he claimed is the essence of religious experience. The same quality is intended by the term "transcendent"---the divine, wherever it manifests itself, goes beyond anything that human beings are familiar with. In this aspect of otherness, Christianity does not fundamentally differ from other religious traditions---after all, Christianity is one religion among others, so that this should neither surprise nor trouble Christians. But the kenotic dimension of the Christian message adds an alien quality distinctly its own. This, precisely, is the "folly" that Paul spoke of. 

If the church gives up this "folly," it gives up itself and its very reason for being. This is why the pursuit of the "wisdom of the world" is finally so pernicious. It is not just that it is more or less futile, for the sociological reasons I mentioned, or that it is philosophically dubious. More importantly, if the church (or, for that matter, individual Christians) give up the transcendent core of the tradition in order to placate the alleged spirit of the times what is given up is the most precious truth that has been entrusted to the church's care---the truth about the redemption of men through God's coming into the world in Christ.


… (T)he "word of the cross" is addressed to all of us, whatever our vocation or life situation. Jesus preferred to move on the margins of society, but He is able to appear in every social location. The "word of the cross" saves us because it tells us that we don't have to be strong in order to participate in God's power. God reveals Himself in weakness, also in our weakness---in social weakness, in moral weakness, and also in intellectual weakness. He moves among the poor, among sinners, among "fools." Once we have had our various pretensions debunked, there is very great comfort in this message.

Our attention here is directed towards God's weakness----His coming into the world in the weak form of a man, this man's persecution and degradation, His lonely despair and His painful death. In contemplating God's weakness and Jesus' Calvary we inevitably include the weakness and the suffering of all creatures, in the words of the Book of Common Prayer "all those who are any ways afflicted, or distressed, in mind, body, or estate" (and, of course, especially those whose pain or sorrow has touched our own lives). 

If that were all there is to Christianity, it would be the most doleful religion, a truly masochistic and downright pathological belief. Of course, that is not the case at all.

Lent is the prelude, not the culmination. Lent leads up to Easter, the ultimate weakness of God to the blinding revelation of His omnipotence. The "word of the cross" culminates and finds its true meaning in the word of the resurrection---Christ's resurrection and our own. 

It is this redemptive word that Paul carried with him on his restless travels and that he was anxious to protect against the false wisdoms of the world. The same redemptive word is the only reason for being of the Christian church of today, as it is the beginning and end of our faith.







Monday, May 21, 2012

Tuesday's Trust - The Grace Card ~Tommy and Angie Prince





Tuesday's Trust
The Grace Card

~Tommy and Angie Prince




Tonight, Tommy and I watched a movie... about what you ask? Just ask our two sons -- What do we do to take a break away from our grief and trauma? You probably guessed it ~ we watch a movie about grief or trauma!

We entered into watching this movie tonight with fear and trepidation as we've watched our share of "somewhat hoaky" to "pretty hoaky" movies about grief. We all know it is pretty hard to show what a child-loss parent's grief looks like...

And here comes this dvd that is made up of mostly volunteers... {We don't mind that of course ~ our nephew was an actor volunteer in "We Are Marshall" (he was the kicker on the football team), and our own son Rollin recently has been cast in one of these types of movies, one called "Laughing at the Moon," but this movie has not yet been released. (I'm sure you'll hear more about that later!)}

We were teasing each other before watching this particular grief movie, called "The Grace Card" by saying:

"We'll give it ten minutes...!"

We seem to have this need to check out all the movies we can about child-loss. 

Another movie we recently checked out was, "The Other Woman" ~ another movie about child-loss. Though it had a famous actress (Natalie Portman) starring in it, it seemed to fall flat to us. But then our standards are pretty high about whether people can "capture" such a grief as the one we are living out day by day, hour by grief-struck hour.

In the movie tonight, "The Grace Card," fortunately we were pleasantly surprised (if you can be pleasantly surprised about grief). The "grieving family" members were continuing to show the pain and struggle that I'm sure can still be with you after 17 years of grieving, complete with the toll such grief takes upon every family member, each feeling grief's pain and chaos in their own unique way. The main character, the "father" in particular (who is a Christian stand-up comedian by trade) did an excellent job of portraying the angst of a child-loss father: with the soul-searching questions, the guilt, the isolating oneself from others who don't or can't "get it," the power of life-stopping triggering moments, the guilt, the anger, the repulsion over "God-talk" when it is plastic, cliche, cheesy, or a quick cop-out versus the authentic experience of God that can be loving, comforting, challenging, growth-producing, and life-transforming. 

How many of us secretly harbor that self-blame still? How many of us feel the continued raw anger and wonder where is this coming from, and is this perhaps the start of bitterness, or is the anger mere self-protection needed to survive another day? This movie showed a simple but powerful concept of grace ~ grace toward others, and grace toward yourself amidst such grief. 

This movie seems to stand alone in showing the transcending quality that the spiritual component can bring to one's grief. The movie aptly captured both the angst of child-loss, but also the redemptive component that can come in child-loss as you learn to extend grace to yourself (and others) amidst your pain. 

And "The Grace Card" didn't show this redemptive quality in a cheap way, but in an authentic-enough way that we were right in the pain with the parent. And we were right there in the grace with him too. 

This movie is one that seemed to come close to capturing some of the real agony of a child-loss griever, and that of the other child-loss family members. And yet, it also presented a fairly authentic portrait of the grace that we trust is also an important aspect of our healing as God, by His tender mercy, enables us to learn ways to transcend our terrible angst and pain.











Picture, thanks to Amazon.com 

Thursday, June 23, 2011

Friday's Faith - Death Stops All Clocks







Friday's Faith


Death Stops All Clocks






I wrote the following poem the other night after watching a movie depicting Charles Dickens' classic book Great Expectations, in which the main character put her life completely on hold, stopping all the clocks in her house when her fiance broke off with her the day of her wedding. She never came out of the house after that day and kept all the drapes closed, blocking all sunshine out of her life until the day she died. She became a prisoner in her own home and at her own hands...


Uncomfortably, much of her life resonated with these past almost-five years of my life...





Death Stops All Clocks




Lord, have I indeed, stopped all the clocks

Since her death ~ trying to make Time stand still?

Have I stilled my body ~ locked in a box,

As if, not moving through time, I could bring her back still?



OR, as time stands still, do I help myself mourn,

Giving my traumatized brain time to adjust...

Pacing myself by baby-steps, as, heart-torn,

My body/soul/spirit could otherwise "bust,"

Trying to do "normal" when it flew out with death's gust?





The reality is Death stops all clocks;

Death paralyzes into a tranced-state;

Trauma is sealed in limbic systems with locks;

Caught in a riptide, we give in--to navigate...



(While others look on with attitudes of hate:

Instead of wanting to help, they'd rather berate,

While we must be patient with ourselves--not judge,

For only with love will our grief start to budge

as we overlook those who hold Griever-Grudge.)



Trauma takes time to be walked through;

Within therapeutic limits, grief will break through.


The truth is Lord, my baby's with You...!





Respond to Me, My child;

I'll pour my heart out to you.

The One who died, your child to reconcile,

Is the One who longs to make His thoughts known to you.


The only way through Satan's destruction

Is humbly turning to my instruction:


Some sell their souls

To have lands and gold

Others yield their soul ~

In them, I pour My Love into their soul.


Love heals. Love reveals.

Love, your heart gently seals.

Just as Love now holds your baby close to My heart,

So Love holds your heart, My healing to impart...