Showing posts with label Mental Health. Show all posts
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Thursday, October 22, 2009

Thursday's Therapy - What is Complicated Grief, and What is "Complicated Grief Therapy"?



Thursday's Therapy


What is Complicated Grief,

and

What is "Complicated Grief Therapy"?



Notes taken from

American Journal of Psychiatry, July, 2009

American Psychiatric Association

Editorial

Grief and Depression: Treatment Decisions for Bereaved Children and Adults

By M. Katherine Shear, M.D.


What is the difference between Grief and Depression?


Yearning (passionately missing and/or desiring to be with your loved one) is the sine qua non (indispensable factor) of grief and is not seen in depression. Yearning is the experience of wanting, a component of the brain reward system thought to be deactivated in depression. By contrast, even during the initial period of acute grief, bereaved people retain the ability to experience positive emotions. Positive emotions may be evoked in a bereaved person when recalling pleasant experiences with the deceased or when expressing pride in the loved one or telling amusing anecdotes. Moreover, sadness is not usually pervasive during grief; rather, it occurs in waves or pangs of emotion. Acute grief is associated with preoccupation with thoughts and memories of the deceased, while depression is associated with self-critical or pessimistic rumination.


What is Complicated Grief?

Complicated grief is "a form of prolonged acute grief that is clinically significant and occurs in about 10% of bereaved individuals."

Key features of Complicated Grief include:

§ Persistent intense yearning and longing for the person who died

§ Disruptive preoccupation with thoughts and memories of this person

§ Disruptive preoccupation with thoughts and memories of this person

§ Disruptive Avoidance of reminders that the person is gone

§ A range of negative emotions that include

o Deep relentless sadness

o Self-blame

o Bitterness or anger in connection with death

o An inability to gain satisfaction or joy through engaging in meaningful activities or relationships with significant others

It has been discovered that complicated grief increases activation of brain reward centers when exposed to stimuli that were reminders of the deceased loved one; this (relief factor) supports the difference between complicated grief and depression.

Complicated grief can co-occur with other psychiatric disorders, meaning the grief itself does not necessarily "create" the other disorders.


However Complicated grief can contribute to

§ Psychological Impairment

§ Functional Impairment

§ (even) Suicidality

independent of any other disorders.


Dr. Shear's belief is, "Complicated grief needs to be treated and is refractory (resistant) to standard treatment for depression. A targeted treatment may be required."

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In summary, studies of adults as well as children indicate that most bereaved people experience a painful period of acute grief and go on to make a good adjustment and to restore their ability to attain joy and satisfaction in their ongoing lives.


A clinically significant minority do not enjoy this positive outcome and instead experience psychiatric sequelae, the most common of which are

§ Major Depression

§ Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder

§ Alcohol or Substance Abuse

§ Complicated Grief.

Each of these conditions needs to be recognized as early as possible and treated appropriately to prevent the development of enduring disruptive illness.


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Complicated Grief shares elements of Major Depression and PTSD (See below). However treatments typically used for these disorders don't work well for people with Complicated Grief. (Below, you will see the proper grief therapy indicated for bereaved parents who decide they want therapy, according to the latest grief research (2005). It is called "Complicated-Grief Therapy.)

Elements in common with Major Depression:

§ Sadness

§ Guilt

§ Social Withdrawal

Elements in common with Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder

§ Disbelief

§ Intrusive Images

§ Avoidance Behaviors


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Psychotherapy - What is Complicated-Grief Therapy?

If a grieving person does decide to pursue psychotherapy for complicated grief, be sure your therapist is well-trained in the latest "Complicated-Grief Therapy." Typically, Complicated-Grief Therapy involves several components. The therapist will help you to recall stories of your loved one's death as the therapist tape-records your recollections. Periodically, the therapist will ask you to report your level of distress. Then the therapist will have you listen to the tape between sessions.

Your therapist will try to reduce your distress levels during each session by "promoting a sense of connection to the loved one" such as

* Imagining having conversations with your deceased loved one

* Discussing positive and negative memories about him or her.

The Complicated-Grief Therapy trained therapist will also ask you to discuss what your plans and goals would be if your grief were not so intense.


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Note:

"Complicated grief is common in unexpected and violent deaths," says Keith Hawton, professor of psychiatry in his Editorial: "Complicated grief after bereavement."


I would argue Complicated Grief is the norm with any parent's loss of a child.









M. Katherine Shear, M.D. – Editorial: Grief and Depression: Treatment Decisions for Bereaved Children and Adults http://ajp.psychiatryonline.org/cgi/content/full/166/7/746?ijkey=acb0bd6aa2a2b140c47b20e80900b8e7d254e008&keytype2=tf_ipsecsha

Psychiatry Professor Keith Hawton – Editorial: Complicated grief after bereavement http://www.bmj.com/cgi/content/extract/334/7601/962

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Tuesday, June 23, 2009

Losing My Mind


Losing My Mind


God, my family thinks I’m losing my mind,

And some days I have thoughts of the same kind...


They’ll tell me something, and minutes later,

I’ll forget...my mind filled with things graver...

Like death, dying, and where’s my baby girl?!


My mind is spinning; my brain is awhirl—

Nothing’s no longer right in this wrong world!

I don’t belong here, without my li’l girl....

Into a living nightmare I’ve been hurled


Where thoughts and beliefs and feelings just swirl,

But no matter how I pine and ponder,

My mind cannot rest, but starts to wander:


Is there some thing I can DO t’ make it right . . .

To end this horrible state of my plight?


And please don’t tell me she’s not coming back;

I cannot take a life filled with such lack!


We went through Father’s Day; she wasn’t there—

It felt so wrong ...our fam'ly circle, square?

Voices so lively, yet SHE wasn’t there!

On a day so special, her place was bare...


How do I go on, a hole in my heart,

A knife in my gut? My world falls apart...


So, no, I don’t think so clearly just now;

My mind can’t conceive of just where or how

Life should go on; who am I anyhow—


A counselor with no heart? – We can’t allow

Clients to come in, to talk problems out


With the counselor whose heart has been ripped out!



So I guess it’s going to take awhile

Till my heart, soul, and spirit reconcile

That th' horrible absence that is present…


Is just part of our heav’nly investment—



She is now wearing her heav'nly vestment…

Though absent here, she is very present…


In the stillness, we will feel her essence

As she blesses our hearts with her presence.


But if we’re not quiet, we might miss her...

Quiet our minds...for by faith we’ll see her!



Quiet me now, with Your comfort draw near,

Till that Day my baby girl will appear...



Picture: Angel & Butterfly card.jpg

Written 6/22/09 - Poem – Losing My Mind – Angie Bennett Prince