Showing posts with label Sorrow. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Sorrow. Show all posts

Thursday, April 7, 2011

Friday's Faith - Blessings To My "Family" of Child-Loss Grievers In Comforting, May We Hold One Another Up...





Friday's Faith



Blessings To My "Family" of Child-Loss Grievers


In Comforting, May We Hold One Another Up...





Dogwoods blowing in the air,

Firmly rooted, holds them there.

White and pink flow in the breeze

Complement, my eyes to please.



So are we to one another,

This fam'ly who, loves each other,

Blesses, edifies, as to build,

So our burdens we may wield.



Bless you fam'ly, holding me there

Along with God's gentle care.

Hold me up when I might fall;

The weight of grief threatens all.




Dogwoods blowing in the air,

Sweet reflection of Love's care...





*****





"Grief and sadness knits two hearts in closer bonds than happiness ever can; and common sufferings are far stronger than common joys."


~Alphonse de Lamartine




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"Even hundredfold grief is divisible by love."


~Terri Guillements



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"Friendship doubles our joy and divides our grief."


~Swedish Proverb




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"Grief shared is grief diminished."


~Rabbi Grollman




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"I loathe a friend whose gratitude grows old, a friend who takes his friend's prosperity but will not voyage with him in his grief."


~Euripides




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"The friend who can be silent with us in a moment of confusion or despair, who can stay with us in an hour of grief and bereavement, who can tolerate not knowing...not healing...not curing...that is a friend indeed."

~Henri Nouwen


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To rejoice in another's prosperity is to give content to your lot; to mitigate another's grief is to alleviate or dispel your own."

~Tyron Edwards


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"Quiet and sincere sympathy is often the most welcome and efficient consolation to the afflicted. Said a wise man to one in deep sorrow, 'I did not come to comfort you; God only can do that; but I did come to say how deeply and tenderly I feel for you in your affliction.'"

~Tyron Edwards


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"When it seems that our sorrow is too great to be borne, let us think of the great family of the heavy-hearted into which our grief has given us entrance, and inevitably, we will feel about us, their arms and their understanding."

~Helen Keller, (1880 - 1968)



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May we ever love and support one another in our grief, and with God's loving help, may our comfort be used to help hold one another up amidst our immense and heavy grief...









Pictures from FotoSearch and from Google Images
Quotes:
http://blog.gaiam.com/quotes/topics/grief?page=3
http://www.recover-from-grief.com/memorial-quotes.html
http://www.best-self-help-sites.com/grief-quotes.html

http://thinkexist.com/quotations/grief/4.html


Wednesday, January 27, 2010

Tuesday's Trust - Brokenness






Tuesday's Trust


Brokenness




He called a little child and had him stand among them. And He said, "I tell you the truth, unless you change and become like little children, you will never enter the kingdom of heaven. Therefore, whoever humbles himself like this child is the greatest in the kingdom of heaven.

~Matthew 18:3-4




...Shutting down is not healthful. It keeps us from draining the emotions from our wound.


Pain doesn't disappear because we will it to. Unexpressed pain becomes toxic and inevitably takes its toll. It poisons us like a polluted underground water supply feeding into a spring.


When we rush to get past the tears and get on with our lives we actually short-circuit our healing. There is no quick way to get to the other side of this storm. The only way to the end is through it...



For today, face, with courage and determination, the daunting task of examining all of the broken pieces of your life.



Give full attention to


  • your sorrow
  • your anger
  • your fear
  • your disillusionment
  • your faltering faith.




Do this, because your job in this rebuilding process is to hand each piece to your Heavenly Father as He asks for them. Then watch in awe as He puts them back together in a new and better pattern of living.


~Raymond R. Mitsch and Lynn Brookside







You can't heal a wound by saying it's not there!

~Jeremiah 6:14 TLB














Raymond R. Mitsch and Lynn Brookside, Grieving the Loss of Someone You Love, pp. 46, 60

Photo: Broken heart (mosaic) thanks to media.photobucket.com

Fine Art: Beauty in Brokenness - thanks to Joyce Geleynse via google.com images