Showing posts with label Post-Traumatic Stress. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Post-Traumatic Stress. Show all posts

Friday, April 9, 2010

Friday's Faith - Faith Amidst Grief's Traumatizing Distress





Friday's Faith



Faith Amidst Grief's Traumatizing Distress







No sooner had I entered last night's post

Of stress hormones' devastating effects...

Did I encounter the Threatening "Ghost"

Of Danger~just like a "Days-Gone-By-Hex"...







Infiltrating my brain before I knew

The full impact Stress was having on me,

My triggered brain was traumatized anew

As Danger's "results" were all I could see...







Hyper-startled, hyper-vigilant too...

Stress hormones geared my body for Action:



"There's Danger!


Now you know what you must do!"



...No prefrontal logic, just reaction...








And so today, I find myself uptight,

Feeling the Post-Traumatic-Stress at work...

Asking...




"Will Faith get me through this Dark Night


Where fears, triggers, and abreactions lurk...?"







The daffodil does "Growth-Work" underground

As God carefully designed it to do...


But I? I have options to "Run Aground"...

In Grief's Dark Night, my body throws a coup.





Amidst Grief's Dark Night, vile stressors abound...


Will Growth happen?


Will my Faith see me through?








How about you? Most of us had no idea of the many-faceted effects of Child-Loss Grief.

How does the Stress of Grief affect you?









Picture: Thank you to Eva Soulu for her amazing work of art... http://soulu.cgsociety.org/gallery/605247/

Poem - Faith Amidst Grief's Traumatizing Distress - Angie Bennett Prince - 4/9/2010


Thursday, April 8, 2010

Thursday's Therapy- 6 Tips for Managing Your Stress Hormones




Thursday's Therapy


6 Tips for Managing Your Stress Hormones




PTSD Professional Perspective:


6 Tips for Managing Your Stress Hormones


by Fred Krazeise



This is a reprint from Fred Krazeise’s blog, Empowered and Fit. In this article he breaks down a piece in Prevention Magazine that details how cortisol affects us, and how we can affect it back! Oh, the power we hold….

Fred holds a Master’s degree in Education from Chapman University and a BA from University of Maryland. He is an active member of the American Massage Therapy Association (AMTA).



When I meet with clients for the first time, one of the questions I ask is ‘How much stress do you have in your life?’ Often, a client will respond by saying she doesn’t suffer from stress at all. And I usually respond by saying, ‘Oh, really?’


We usually don’t realize how stress affects us, because our body does a good job of adapting to pressures put on it. And I think in our society (certainly here in the Washington, DC, metro area), we are often encouraged to wear stress like a badge of honor. We carry our Blackberry’s with us at all times, we don’t take vacation or time off, we work long hours, we don’t get enough sleep, and in these difficult economic times, many people are putting off seeing their doctors or otherwise caring for themselves. These factors and many more contribute to the rise of the “stress hormone”, cortisol.


No don’t get me wrong, a little stress can be a good thing. Cortisol is produced by your adrenal system and it helps to regulate your blood pressure and immune system. It can help you increase your level of energy as well as improve your ability to fight off infection. According to an article published in the February edition of Prevention Magazine, just a little bit of cortisol can:


- Boost your sex drive by improving your mood and sexual arousal

- Ease pain by helping to release other pain reducing hormone systems

- Improve memory,when moderate levels of cortisol exist


However, chronically high levels of this otherwise helpful hormone can cause all sorts of problems ranging from insomnia, a depressed immune system, and even weight gain. According to Shawn Talbot, PhD, author of The Cortisol Connection, “When cortisol spikes, it tells the body to eat something with a lot of calories - a great survival tactic if you need energy to flee a predator but not if you’re fretting over how to pay bills.”



The Prevention Magazine article goes on to site several ways you can invoke “the relaxation response,” a natural antitode to the flight-or-fight mode that cortisol stimulates:


  • Meditation - Reduces Cortisol by 20%

People who meditate regularly reduce cortisol levels by an average of 20 percent, in addition to reducing their blood pressure levels.


  • Sleep - Reduces Cortisol by as Much as 50%

Getting a full 8-hours of sleep every night helps your body recover from the stress of your day. If you can’t get the full 8-hours, try to find time for a nap the day after you fall short of the mark.


  • Drink Black Tea - Reduces Cortisol by 47%

Scientists aren’t sure how this works exactly, but they think that naturally occuring flavinoids and polyphenols may be responsible for the calming effect of tea.


  • Find a Funny Pal and Hang out with Her (or Him)! - Reduces Cortisol by 39%

What’s the old adage? Laughter is the best medicine. Well, it turns out that is actually true!


  • Get a Massage - Reduces Cortisol by 31%

This is one of my favorites, of course! Research shows that there is a lasting, cumulative affect by receiving regular bodywork. Massage therapy helps release other hormones such as dopamine and seratonin, which help reduce the effects of stress.


  • Do Something Spiritual - Reduces Cortisol by 25%

Similar to meditating, studies have shown that people who attend regular religious services reported lower cortisol production.





It is nice to see that there can be some relief from the cortisol influx into our systems during our deep distress. May you find comfort and hope this week, and rest for your weary body, soul, mind, heart, and spirit!








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Thursday, October 22, 2009

Thursday's Therapy - What is Complicated Grief, and What is "Complicated Grief Therapy"?



Thursday's Therapy


What is Complicated Grief,

and

What is "Complicated Grief Therapy"?



Notes taken from

American Journal of Psychiatry, July, 2009

American Psychiatric Association

Editorial

Grief and Depression: Treatment Decisions for Bereaved Children and Adults

By M. Katherine Shear, M.D.


What is the difference between Grief and Depression?


Yearning (passionately missing and/or desiring to be with your loved one) is the sine qua non (indispensable factor) of grief and is not seen in depression. Yearning is the experience of wanting, a component of the brain reward system thought to be deactivated in depression. By contrast, even during the initial period of acute grief, bereaved people retain the ability to experience positive emotions. Positive emotions may be evoked in a bereaved person when recalling pleasant experiences with the deceased or when expressing pride in the loved one or telling amusing anecdotes. Moreover, sadness is not usually pervasive during grief; rather, it occurs in waves or pangs of emotion. Acute grief is associated with preoccupation with thoughts and memories of the deceased, while depression is associated with self-critical or pessimistic rumination.


What is Complicated Grief?

Complicated grief is "a form of prolonged acute grief that is clinically significant and occurs in about 10% of bereaved individuals."

Key features of Complicated Grief include:

§ Persistent intense yearning and longing for the person who died

§ Disruptive preoccupation with thoughts and memories of this person

§ Disruptive preoccupation with thoughts and memories of this person

§ Disruptive Avoidance of reminders that the person is gone

§ A range of negative emotions that include

o Deep relentless sadness

o Self-blame

o Bitterness or anger in connection with death

o An inability to gain satisfaction or joy through engaging in meaningful activities or relationships with significant others

It has been discovered that complicated grief increases activation of brain reward centers when exposed to stimuli that were reminders of the deceased loved one; this (relief factor) supports the difference between complicated grief and depression.

Complicated grief can co-occur with other psychiatric disorders, meaning the grief itself does not necessarily "create" the other disorders.


However Complicated grief can contribute to

§ Psychological Impairment

§ Functional Impairment

§ (even) Suicidality

independent of any other disorders.


Dr. Shear's belief is, "Complicated grief needs to be treated and is refractory (resistant) to standard treatment for depression. A targeted treatment may be required."

....

In summary, studies of adults as well as children indicate that most bereaved people experience a painful period of acute grief and go on to make a good adjustment and to restore their ability to attain joy and satisfaction in their ongoing lives.


A clinically significant minority do not enjoy this positive outcome and instead experience psychiatric sequelae, the most common of which are

§ Major Depression

§ Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder

§ Alcohol or Substance Abuse

§ Complicated Grief.

Each of these conditions needs to be recognized as early as possible and treated appropriately to prevent the development of enduring disruptive illness.


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Complicated Grief shares elements of Major Depression and PTSD (See below). However treatments typically used for these disorders don't work well for people with Complicated Grief. (Below, you will see the proper grief therapy indicated for bereaved parents who decide they want therapy, according to the latest grief research (2005). It is called "Complicated-Grief Therapy.)

Elements in common with Major Depression:

§ Sadness

§ Guilt

§ Social Withdrawal

Elements in common with Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder

§ Disbelief

§ Intrusive Images

§ Avoidance Behaviors


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Psychotherapy - What is Complicated-Grief Therapy?

If a grieving person does decide to pursue psychotherapy for complicated grief, be sure your therapist is well-trained in the latest "Complicated-Grief Therapy." Typically, Complicated-Grief Therapy involves several components. The therapist will help you to recall stories of your loved one's death as the therapist tape-records your recollections. Periodically, the therapist will ask you to report your level of distress. Then the therapist will have you listen to the tape between sessions.

Your therapist will try to reduce your distress levels during each session by "promoting a sense of connection to the loved one" such as

* Imagining having conversations with your deceased loved one

* Discussing positive and negative memories about him or her.

The Complicated-Grief Therapy trained therapist will also ask you to discuss what your plans and goals would be if your grief were not so intense.


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Note:

"Complicated grief is common in unexpected and violent deaths," says Keith Hawton, professor of psychiatry in his Editorial: "Complicated grief after bereavement."


I would argue Complicated Grief is the norm with any parent's loss of a child.









M. Katherine Shear, M.D. – Editorial: Grief and Depression: Treatment Decisions for Bereaved Children and Adults http://ajp.psychiatryonline.org/cgi/content/full/166/7/746?ijkey=acb0bd6aa2a2b140c47b20e80900b8e7d254e008&keytype2=tf_ipsecsha

Psychiatry Professor Keith Hawton – Editorial: Complicated grief after bereavement http://www.bmj.com/cgi/content/extract/334/7601/962

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Wednesday, February 11, 2009

Post-Traumatic Stress Syndrome and Grief


My brother Rick is in the hospital tonight with pneumonia. Since I was a child, we had to be sure to get him right to the hospital if there was a chance he had pneumonia. You see, my brother is handicapped--he can't walk; he's never been able to walk, so he is in a wheelchair. Being in a wheelchair over all those years, (he is 58), Rick's muscles have gotten weaker and weaker, so contracting pneumonia can be extremely serious when he doesn't have the muscle-power to cough enough to clear his lung congestion.

By this evening after intravenous antibiotics, Rick is doing better, but isn't out of the woods yet (he's still in Intensive Care). He reflected back over the day with my sisters who have been with him since 8:00 this a.m. that he thought for awhile there he really wasn't gonna make it. No wonder my sisters had called me (I'm five hours away), tearful and frightened this morning. Tommy and I prayed intensely for him all day. I'm so thankful God heard and is answering all our prayers!

Having lost my daughter, I find myself getting traumatized when anything bad happens to someone I love. The possibility of losing them has become all-too-real to me. So my body and emotions fast-forward ahead to the worst possibility, and I'm there, fearful and grieving the worst.

Even though I'm a therapist, I forget that Post-Traumatic Stress Syndrome can happen right along with grief. When I get triggered (like if one of my sons forgets to call me when going away, and I hit near-panic over the possibilities), knowledge doesn't seem to phase my emotions. Even though I might know intellectually that the odds are great he just forgot to call, my body and emotions are already traumatized, and there's not much I can do to undo them at that point.

Grief can be so complex and complicated. It is almost impossible to help someone else to understand all the intricacies involved with grief where one thing affects another, affects another, and so on. (I can't even understand complicated grief, and I'm living it!) Some days, I can hardly function when the grief has been intense; okay, I'll admit . . . at some level, that pain is always fairly debilitating; for it not to be debilitating is the exception.

That's one reason I'm so glad I can write during this time--doing something productive when just about everything else is "high" on the dysfunctional scale. Thank You, God, for Your creative juices to be flowing through me when I'm out for the count for much else.

But wait, isn't that how You always said it would be? 

"My grace is sufficient for you; for My power is made perfect when your power runs out."  2 Corinthians 12:9a

Move in and through me, Lord; I guess I am primed and ready for Your power to flow!